I often meet people who proclaim they have made their lives brilliant by their own hands, or by being the recipient of positive consequences due to impeccable choices. Using a daily check off list their life is rich with everything they need and more.
I was the child in elementary who witnessed a young child with cigarette burns on her legs, or the child who could never make eye contact; my friend who stuttered and would get screamed at by her parents....the list went on and on...I was overwhelmed at a young age by other humans, and their trials.
I wonder if they were able to defy every sociological study.
Almost two weeks ago the Michael Jordan of the singing world gave me one of the most incredible compliments a singer can be given. With all my might I tried to hold back, but a tiny tear seeped out and ran down my left cheek. This natural ability to identify with complex emotions and feel empathy for others always came with a price. Most often it has been misinterpreted, and sometimes squashed by well meaning intentions.
This last week gratitude has surfaced in giant waterfalls of tears. I went to a coaching and could not hold back...I sobbed to the man who has believed in my ability to put several concepts together blubbered to the woman who has helped me with my kids so that I can pursue my talents. I have not been able to hold back my gratitude lately.
As I stood there listening to an incredible singer commend me on my instincts and musical abilities I realized that I had to have PEOPLE to get where I am.
One of my really great friends once said: "Well if someone has it all figured out on their own...what the BLEEP do they need God for? God works through people..."
Although I have had to work hard, and make wise choices, I know without a doubt that the humans surrounding me are making the journey more rewarding, and their knowledge makes for a better experience.
And "Every teardrop is a waterfall."
